Happy Thanksgiving! (Lao Style)

On Tuesday I was talking with one of my American Center students on the bus who is a monk. His name is Nee. We had a class at the American Center celebrating Thanksgiving. I thought I’d include my second post about Buddhist monks here since I learned so much before class! I also included my Thanksgiving celebration on Thursday, which was pretty uneventful.

Monks and Novices

Today I learned about of the differences between monks and novices. It is easy to tell who is a novice and who is a monk if you pay attention to what they are wearing. Novices wear robes that show one of their shoulders, and are not full-blown monks. Monks wear robes that cover both shoulders.

novices

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These young men are all novices because they have one shoulder showing.

full-blown monk

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This young man is a monk because both of his shoulders are covered.

You can address a monk as “ku-bah” and a novice as “tua” if they are younger than you. If the novice is older than you, you can address them as “eye-tua.”

Young men usually serve as novices for 4 years before they can become a monk. To become a monk, you must be at least 20 years old. Not all novices become monks. If a novice decides to become a monk, there are more rules to follow and the novice must stay a monk for a minimum of four years before disrobing (leaving monkhood behind). There is no stigma around leaving monkhood behind. It is a very common thing for young men to serve as monks for a while and then leaving the monkhood.

novice initiation

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Young men participating in the novice initiation ceremony

Novices have 10 rules that they have to follow, while monks have 277. Some novices do not want to become monks because they plan on disrobing in the near future. Many young men serve as novices for several years, and then leave monkhood to take on a different job and possibly have a family. There are more rules for monks compared to novices. For example, monks are not allowed to have backpacks and must use the special satchels provided by the temple. Monks must also cover both shoulders and cannot use scarves to cover their heads from the sun. There is a slightly stricter dress code for monks.

It turns out that I teach 3 novices! I will have to ask them if they plan on becoming monks. (And I will have to start addressing them as “tua.”)

What are monks allowed to eat?

I asked Ku-bah Nee if monks are allowed to eat meat. He said yes. However, they are not allowed to eat snake, horse, cat, bear, elephant, 2 types of tigers, and some other things. This is because the Buddha was reincarnated as all of these creatures, and the monks do not eat them out of respect for Buddha’s past lives.

buddha as white elephant

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A temple in Thailand with a white elephant that represents Buddha’s reincarnation from a past life. (You can tell this is Thailand or Laos because of the three-headed elephant on the side. This is a symbol of Laos and Thailand used frequently in temple imagery.)

Read more about elephants in Thai Buddhism

Differences in Monkhood in Vientiane and Luang Prabang

Rules for monks are stricter in Luang Prabang. (Ku-bah Nee is from Luang Prabang.) In Vientiane, monks can ride bicycles and motorbikes (even though it’s technically against the rules) and can take the bus. In Luang Prabang, monks are never allowed to ride bicycles and motorbikes. The bus is not popular in Luang Prabang. Monks in Vientiane also don’t have to use the special monk satchel given to them by the temple. They can use backpacks. In Luang Prabang, they must use the special satchel. Monks are also not allowed to wear novice robes in Luang Prabang. Ku-bah Nee is a monk, but he was wearing novice robes on the bus. He said it is ok for him to wear novice robes in Vientiane, but never in Luang Prabang.

monks in LPB

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Monks at a temple in Luang Prabang

Thanksgiving at the American Center

I taught a lesson about Thanksgiving today at the American Center since many students wanted to learn about it. I have been teaching a grammar class there for the past four weeks and thought that we could end with something fun.

I taught the class about Thanksgiving with an educational video and had them use the words from the word bank to fill in the sentences. I showed them pictures of the Macy’s Day Parade, the presidential turkey pardon, and Turkey Trots across the U.S. I brought a Turkey Trot medal from 2022 for show and tell. The whole class made hand turkeys at the end and wrote sentences about what they were grateful for during the holiday season.

Thanksgiving Monks

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My Thanksgiving class at the American Center with their hand turkeys

Actual Thanksgiving (11/23)

Joma

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Joma in Vientiane, Laos

For actual Thanksgiving, I had a normal Thursday. For dinner, I went to Joma café by the Mekong and got a Thanksgiving sandwich with turkey, stuffing, cranberries, and gravy. I also bought a miniture pie with dewberries or something like that. I read The Ramayana for an hour and a half at Joma after I finished and went home. I was too tired to go for a run, especially since I bike 9 miles on both Wednesdays and Thursdays!

I had the best Thanksgiving I could have, but it still would have been nice to celebrate with family.

 Date: November 23, 2023
 Tags:  Buddhism daily life culture teaching holiday

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